Reclaim your confidence from speaking anxiety.
Communication coaching to amplify your voice in every room.
"I wanted to 'uplevel' my communication. But the work was actually just trusting how I lead and innately communicate."
— Sales Leader
Does your voice disappear in certain rooms?
You know your stuff. You're confident with your team. But in front of senior leaders or when the stakes are high, everything you prepared disappears.
The unpredictability is the worst part.
Want to understand why this is happening? Take this free (and fast) quiz to learn why you lose your voice only sometimes:
What if this isn't about communication at all?
When your voice disappears, it's not because you don't know what to say.
It's because your attention splits—between what you want to say and how you think you're being perceived.
Your brain fog, your lost train of thought, your voice fluctuation, speaking too fast, the sweating, the blushing, the stomach distress, the shortness of breath—these aren't communication problems.
They're focus issues. And focus is a muscle you can strengthen.
(yes, even if you learn differently—it’s all about listening to your own voice and building your own framework!)
Watch my TEDx talk about this work:
I’m Lee Bonvissuto.
I created this work because I needed it—and because I kept meeting brilliant people who were considering leaving careers they loved because of speaking anxiety.
I believe speaking anxiety is a rational response to hierarchical power structures—not a personal failing.
My approach is all about presence, not perfection. Because you're confident when you're comfortable.
AS SEEN IN
A framework proven over 10+ years with thousands of leaders—a flexible structure customized for your voice.
Because you don't need to become someone else—you need to access who you already are.
EMBODY
Grounded Presence & Managing Nerves
Get out of your head and into the present.
Regulate your nervous system instead of fighting it.
Anchor your attention so you can think under pressure.
Stop trying to be polished/professional/precise/perfect.
Start being present.
“Lee personalizes the learning plan based on your unique skills and challenges and iterate to adapt as you grow.”
— UX Director Salesforce
EXPERT
Accessing Your Expertise Without Over-Preparing
Stop scripting everything. Learn to organize your thinking on the go.
Find the "10th floor" instead of starting in the details.
Trust what you know in the moment and that over-preparation perpetuates the cycle.
"Lee has helped numerous folks on the Warp team find their voice and become clearer, more confident communicators. Highly recommend working with them!”— CEO at Warp
EMPATHY
Connection Without Collapse
Stop absorbing everyone's anxiety (and preserve your own).
Use your empathy strategically—as a focusing tool, not a distraction.
Re-center your audience without losing your center.
“Lee helped me acknowledge the deeper issues underneath my speaking anxiety while also offering easy and actionable tips to speak with more confidence and clarity.”
— Susanna, Product Manager
This work is different:
It’s not about fixing you →
There's nothing wrong with you.
You're responding rationally to oppressive hierarchies and alpha-dominant cultures.
“I appreciate how you customize tools on the fly. Knowing which tools I should focus on first has been helpful in allowing me to continuously improve without the pressure of implementing them all at once.”
— Engineering Leader
It’s not about performing confidence →
You don't need to become someone else. You need structure to find yourself under pressure.
Combining proven frameworks with your unique voice for sustainable confidence.
“It’s really amazing how far I’ve come, how much growth there’s been and how different I feel from 3 months ago. I feel like I can talk to anyone now.”
— Project Manager
It’s not about memorizing scripts →
Over-preparation perpetuates the problem.
Learn how to organize your thoughts on the go and prepare the right amount (for both spontaneous and public speaking!)
“I stopped over-preparing for presentations and everything feels easier now. This work is strengthening the muscle of being myself."
— VP in Financial Services
