Are you completely yourself in some rooms, and someone else entirely in others?

“This isn't just about communication. It really is about finding your voice in a world that needs it more than ever.”

— Sarah, General Counsel

Public speaking coach, Lee Bonvissuto

I'm Lee Bonvissuto and I needed this work.

I kept meeting brilliant people who were considering leaving careers they loved because of speaking anxiety (like me!).

We weren't lacking confidence. We were lacking focus.

I’ve helped hundreds of people reclaim their confidence and careers from speaking anxiety.

This work is never about becoming a "better" communicator. It's about learning to stay yourself when the room gets hard.

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Before an important meeting, do you...

  • Over-prepare obsessively — then still feel unprepared when it matters?

  • Dread it for days, replaying every possible way it could go wrong?

  • Worry you'll be "found out" — even though you know your stuff?

And in the moment: Does your mind go blank? Your chest tighten? Your train of thought just... disappears?

You're not alone. And there's nothing wrong with you.

Public speaking coach presents to a corporate workshop

This isn't a communication problem.

You communicate perfectly when you're comfortable — with your team, in familiar settings, one-on-one.

When your voice disappears, it's not because you don't know what to say.

It's because your attention splits: half trying to remember what you want to say, half monitoring "do I sound confident? do they think I know my stuff?"

That split is what causes the brain fog, the lost train of thought, the racing heart, the shortness of breath.

These are focus issues. And focus is a muscle we can strengthen.

Public speaking coach waits to speak in public about managing speaking nerves in front of a large crowd

If you're here, you're probably mid-career with deep expertise. You're empathetic. Detail-oriented. Conscientious. These are strengths — they make you excellent at your work.

But in hierarchical workplaces, they can work against you:

  • Your empathy picks up every micro-signal → you absorb the anxiety in the room

  • Your detail-orientation makes you over-prepare → you can't access your expertise under pressure

  • Your conscientiousness makes you deferential → you shrink around authority

Why is this happening?

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Not sure where to start?

If you want to understand why this is happening:

Watch the free training — under 25 minutes that will change how you think about speaking anxiety entirely.

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