Stay yourself when the pressure's on.
You know what you want to say, until the pressure hits.
Express Yourself Everywhere is a self-guided course with short, clear videos and simple tools you make your own, so you can stay present when the stakes are high.
~15 minutes a week · Short videos · Yours to keep“After this work, I’m more in sync with myself. Before, my mind and body were at different speeds. Now I feel more confident and capable, like I can talk to anyone.” — Jen, Creative Entrepreneur
You're totally yourself with the people you trust. And then you walk into that room.
Your voice gets quiet.
Your mind goes blank when someone throws you a question.
You prep for hours and still walk in feeling like you're winging it.
You know your stuff. You just can't access it when it counts.
And it's exhausting.
If you've tried to fix this before and you’re still frustrated, it's not because you didn't try hard enough.
Most advice treats this like a skills problem. Write a script. Rehearse more.
But when your voice disappears in the moment, it's not because you're missing a skill.
It’s because your attention splinters and you start focusing on how you’re perceived.
So, we don't work on your communication. We work on your focus.
“I never realized it was focus control vs lacking communication skills.” — Product Manager
WHAT YOU'VE PROBABLY TRIED
Memorizing what to say
Rehearsing until it's perfect
Long courses you never finish
Trying to look confident
WHAT WE'LL DO INSTEAD
Get back into your body, not your brain
Find your words without scripts
Concise videos with practical tools
Channel empathy instead of losing yourself
Start with the moment you most dread.
The course walks you through these three focus areas and encourages you to start where you need it most.
EMBODY
Calm your nerves
Get out of your head and back into your body, with tools for a shaky voice, short breath and a racing heart.
EXPERT
Find your words
Think on your feet when someone puts you on the spot, without prepping for hours.
EMPATHY
Channel authority
Use your empathy as a strength, so you can read the room without losing yourself in it.
Each video is short and gives you one simple tool you can actually use.
You build your own personalized toolbox so you’re prepared when you can’t prepare
This is for you if…
You're great at your work, and freeze up when it's time to talk about it.
Your voice disappears when the stakes are high, or when a question comes out of nowhere.
You over-prepare and still feel like you're winging it.
You're fine one-on-one, and you go quiet in groups.
You're tired of feeling like you're putting on a performance.
You're at a fulcrum point:
From execution → people leader
From manager → executive
From deferential → leading strategically
From thorough → concise
From forceful → magnetic
Two ways to start
On your own time
$297
The whole course, at your own pace.
Every video lesson
Your toolbox whiteboard
Tools for the physical stuff: shaky voice, short breath, racing heart
Lifetime access
With me, one-on-one
$797
Everything in the course
A 60-minute session with me on Zoom scheduled within one month
A quick questionnaire first, so we start right where it's hardest
We'll build your toolbox whiteboard together
Not sure yet? Start with the course. You can add a session with me in the first 30 days for the $500 difference.
I save a few pay-what-you-wish spots for people working in social justice and anyone who's recently lost their income. Just reach out.
I made this because I needed it.
I couldn't speak, but it only happened in certain rooms.
I was confident doing the work. But the second I had to talk about it, especially to people with power, I'd lose my personality (and my train of thought!).
Then I realized perfectionism was making it impossible for me to be present. Once I stopped trying to fix my voice, I could finally speak freely.
I've spent over a decade helping thousands of people do the same. I made this course self-guided so you can start with whatever feels hardest and go at your own pace.
Lee
What changes when you do this work
94.3%
feel more confident speaking
92.5%
speak up more in meetings
89.6%
feel more at ease on video calls
89.9%
feel fewer nerves
From hundreds of PresentVoices client surveys over 13 years
“Lee’s self-guided online course provides a practical framework for all aspects of day-to-day speaking and presentations. Through this work, I found myself feeling more comfortable and confident in situations that used to intimidate me.”
— Chief Wellness Officer and Physician
"This work offers a consistent avenue to amplify your authentic voice, bolstering confidence in yourself and your expression. Through this work, I have honed my skills, self-awareness, and acceptance."
— Dr. Bobbi Snowden President, InVested in You Incorporated, 501(c)(3) Non-Profit
Questions you might have
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The lessons are short, and you practice in meetings and situations you're already having. There's nothing to keep up with. Budget 15 minutes a week so you integrate tools in a sustainable way.
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I hear this a lot. Most courses treat this as a skills problem and give you more to remember. We work on where your attention goes under pressure, and every lesson ends with one small thing to try in real life, not just on the screen.
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Wherever it's hardest. Your welcome emails will point you to the right lesson.
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Nope. You do it on your own, whenever works for you. If you add on the private coaching session, we’ll schedule that according to your availability Monday-Thursday between 10 and 6 pm ET.
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You'll fill out a quick questionnaire first and schedule your session according to your availability Monday-Thursday between 10 and 6 pm ET.. Then we spend an hour together picking the tools that fit your hardest moments and building your whiteboard around your real week. You don’t have to complete the course videos before we meet.
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Installment plans are available. And I save a few pay-what-you-wish spots, so just reach out.
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This work has supported many neuro-diverse people. Anxiety and attention challenges show up in similar ways. The tools in this program help you consolidate your focus in the present moment—which is exactly what helps with both speaking anxiety and attention regulation. The lessons are short, and you can start anywhere and go in any order.