Comfortable Confidence: A Free Micro-Course
Reclaim your confidence from speaking anxiety
You're exhausted by the inconsistency.
You're confident with your team. But in front of senior leaders or when stakes are high, everything you prepared disappears.
The unpredictability is the worst part.
Maybe you've already tried Toastmasters. Or deep breathing before presentations. Or scripting everything the night before. And those things worked, until they didn't.
That's because this isn't a preparation problem.
What's Actually Happening
This isn't a communication problem.
Your attention splits—between what you want to say and how you think you're being perceived.
When your attention is divided, you can't access your expertise. You sound less authoritative because you feel less grounded.
Over-preparation perpetuates the problem. All that scripting reinforces that you can't trust yourself in the moment.
For some people, their voice goes tight. Others speed up and can't slow down. Some go completely blank, the thought was right there, and then it wasn't.
Those aren't signs that you can't do this. They're signs your attention is split.
In this free and fast training, you'll discover:
Why trying harder makes it worse
Why you feel confident in some settings but not others
How to shift from performance to presence
A few people ask: isn't this just about confidence? It's not. Confidence is a byproduct. What you're building is something more reliable, a way to consolidate your focus so that what you know can actually come through.
I’m Lee
I created this work because I needed it, and because I kept meeting brilliant people who were considering leaving careers they loved because of speaking anxiety.
I believe your speaking anxiety is a rational response to hierarchical power structures, not a personal failing.
My approach is all about presence, not perfection. Because you're confident when you're comfortable.
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"I never realized it was a focus issue, not a communication issue. That reframe changed everything."
— Project Manager
Want tools to express yourself even in rooms where your voice usually disappears?
"This work isn't about becoming someone you're not. It's about being more fully yourself in every room—with tools that help you access that consistently."
— Data Leader
This tends to resonate with people who know their stuff but can't always access it in the moment. Particularly in rooms with senior leaders, in groups where they're the only one who sounds hesitant, or in situations where they've prepared a lot and still don't feel ready. If that's familiar, this is a good place to start.